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I did read some guides already, and most of them recommend to come up with a "backstory" for the tulpa, imagining where do they come from and such. But I want to ask you, is it really necessary? 
We, multiples, are in a unique position. While one part of our brain can cause hormonal storm due to worrying thoughts about someone they love, the other part of it can observe those same thoughts with perfect detachment. And observing your thoughts is the best way to bring calmness to mind; both hosts and tulpas can develop a habit of pulling the over-excited system mate into their calmness bubble; to let them observe their rushing thoughts with an unclouded vision.
This is literally untrue. Hormones create chemical imbalances in the brain that are intended to physically push it in a certain direction. Ignoring sensations and impulses is a sign of mental discipline, but the claim of "perfect detachment" is questionable at best. I recommend re-phrasing this section to more emphasize how different interpretations of events can lead to different levels of calmness and excitement - in short, this paragraph needs to be tempered.I know many systems that face some kinds of stress. I know tulpas worried because of their hosts. And I tell them—don’t worry! You are not there to worry, it’s not your emotion! By all means, stay distant, stay calm, stay strong. And pull your host out, give them your vision, give them your strength. A different perspective is like a bucket of cold water, it can cleanse and refresh the troubled mind.
In this paragraph you encourage tulpas to pull back from worries and real-world problems. Earlier in this article you refer to tulpas as being unprepared for real-world troubles. Why is the solution to that to withdraw further? That doesn't set tulpas up to become strong, independent, and well-rounded individuals.Don’t treat your tulpas as idolised beings, and don’t throw all your problems at them, as they might crumble under the load too. Make use of your plurality and keep a watchful eye on each other’s state of mind to get the most benefit.
Unless the first sentence is a reaffirmation that tulpas should not be made to bear any burdens, its phrasing and purpose is unclear. As a summarizing sentence, it should send a clear message. Also, "make use of your plurality" is a complete mystery to me. What does that mean?
Create a backstory and simulate a life for when they're not with you.
Instead of your tupper always being present, give them a backstory that fits in with reality, a real-life accommodation, job, friends, etc. Visualise them living that life. Whenever you want to speak to them, you have to call each other or physically meet up. If you're willing to experiment, that is.
This is the only guide I found saying that.
(Editor note: Creating a backstory for your tulpa is not necessary, and under no circumstances should they be led to believe that it is real. They will find out it's not, and it won't be pretty.) (edited)Finally, but most importantly, the main issue I have with this submission is it comes across as an advertisement for your other works by the end of it. The last two paragraphs are fine if they stay on your blog post, but as a work published on Tulpa.info, they need to not exist. Resources on Tulpa.info are not designed to advertise to the reader. You mentioned that you prefer to see the traffic on your blog for business purposes, and if that is the case then this article doesn't need to be published here. You can copy and paste your finished draft into submissions and leave out the last two paragraphs linking to your other stuff, or you can leave everything on your blog and not have this work on Tulpa.info.